EFT Tapping for Anxiety: A Natural Way to Calm Stress and Overwhelm

Do you feel anxious, overwhelmed, or like your mind never fully turns off?

Maybe you find yourself overthinking, worrying about the future, feeling tense in your body, or struggling to relax—even when everything seems “fine” on the surface.

If so, you’re not alone.

Anxiety has become increasingly common in today’s fast-paced, uncertain world. Between work stress, family responsibilities, financial pressure, health concerns, grief, major life changes, and simply trying to keep up with everyday life, many people feel like their nervous system is stuck in overdrive.

The truth is: anxiety is incredibly common.

In fact, anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health concerns, affecting millions of people every year. But anxiety doesn’t always look the way people expect it to.

It can show up as:

• Constant worrying or overthinking
• Trouble sleeping or relaxing
• Feeling overwhelmed easily
• Panic or racing thoughts
• Social discomfort or fear of judgment
• Difficulty concentrating
• Feeling emotionally “on edge”
• Tightness in the chest, stomach, jaw, neck, or shoulders

Anxiety can also take many different forms. Some people experience generalized anxiety, while others struggle with social anxiety, panic attacks, obsessive thinking, trauma responses, or fears related to health, finances, relationships, or uncertainty about the future.

Sometimes anxiety is loud and obvious.

Sometimes it quietly runs in the background, shaping daily life without us even realizing how much energy it takes.

A helpful question to ask yourself is this:

Has worry, fear, or overwhelm started affecting the quality of my life?

If anxiety is impacting your sleep, relationships, ability to focus, energy, confidence, or overall sense of peace, it may be time to explore additional support.

When I work with clients experiencing stress or anxiety, I take time to understand the full picture. We explore questions like:

• How long have you been feeling this way?
• What does anxiety feel like in your body?
• When does it tend to show up?
• What seems to make it worse—or better?
• How much is it affecting your daily life?

Because I’m trained in EFT Tapping (Emotional Freedom Techniques) and have been using it with clients since the early 2000s, I often ask whether someone is open to trying tapping as part of their support process.

EFT tapping is a gentle, mind-body technique that combines focused awareness with tapping on specific acupressure points to help calm the stress response and regulate emotional overwhelm.

Many people find tapping helpful for:

• Anxiety and stress
• Emotional overwhelm
• Fear and worry
• Trauma-related emotions
• Feeling emotionally “stuck”
• Nervous system regulation

One of the things I love most about EFT is that it’s simple to learn and can become a tool you use on your own between sessions.

Because anxiety looks different for everyone, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.

Someone may struggle with social anxiety, while another person feels overwhelmed by finances, health worries, caregiving stress, grief, or generalized anxiety that seems to linger in the background.

In this article, I’ll share a simple EFT tapping script for anxiety that you can customize for your own experience. And if you’d like more personalized support, I can help you create a tapping approach tailored to your unique stressors, triggers, and goals.

WHAT IS TAPPING?

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) tapping is a powerful, easy to learn technique of tuning into the issue (in this case, anxiety) you’re experiencing, and then tapping meridian points on your body.

EFT was first developed by Roger Callahan, then simplified by Gary Craig. Tapping is used by millions of people all over the world for physical and emotional issues including pain relief, gaining confidence, childhood trauma, and so much more.

EFT tapping is simple to do. A person taps on 9 meridian points while saying certain statements related to the issue. The statements start as negative, then change to positive. Starting with negative statements while tapping on meridian points may sound strange, but this works to neutralize the negative charge that’s built up around your issue. Think of it as honoring the subconscious part of you that is screaming to be noticed.

TAPPING POINTS

1. KARATE CHOP POINT
2. INSIDE EYEBROW (IE)
3. SIDE OF EYE (SE)
4. UNDER EYE (UE)
5. UNDER NOSE (UN)
6. CHIN (CH)
7. COLLAR BONE (CB)
8. UNDER ARM (UA)
9. TOP OF HEAD (TH)

THE PROCESS

Measure your intensity level. On a scale of 0 to 10 (10 is the highest; 0 is you no longer have the problem), how strong is that emotion in you currently? Go back to a memory that had a high intensity of emotion/anxiety for you. Plug into this emotion as you rate your score and go through the tapping sequences.

Do the Set Up Statement. Tap the Karate Chop Point on the side of your hand with your index and middle fingers. Say the Set Up Statement three times in a row.

Begin the Tapping Sequence by tapping on the tapping points and saying the statements aloud. Stop between rounds of tapping to measure your intensity level.

Repeat the Set Up and Tapping Sequence if your intensity level is still high. Adjust your script if needed. Your goal is to get your intensity level down to a 0. 

THE SCRIPT

Set Up Statement Karate Chop Point. Say this 3 times: Even though I have anxiety, I accept my issue and I totally and completely accept myself with love and gratitude.

Do the Tapping Sequence. Begin the negative statements with the same words you used in your Set Up Statement, but in a shorter version.

Negative Statements

Measure your intensity level. Where are you on a scale of 0 to 10? Go through another round of negative statements to work on getting your emotional charge down. Change the statements to statements that reflect how you feel about anxiety. For example, “I really hate this anxiety.” “I feel angry that I’m anxious.” “I really wish this anxiety would go away.” “Am I ever going to feel at ease?”

Or, if you feel like the tapping isn’t working: “This EFT tapping is stupid.” “It’s not working at all.”

Positive Statements

Take a deep breath in and exhale slowly. Check in with your intensity level. How do you feel from a 0-10?

Remember: You can substitute your own statements in for those I’ve written here. Customize the script so it reflects more of who you are and what you’re going through.

EFT is highly effective when the statements aren’t generalities, but reflect your own personalized thoughts and feelings one experience at a time. Think about the global issue: anxiety. What experiences of anxiety come to mind? Write them down. When do you first remember being anxious?

For example, “Even though I had an anxiety attack in the middle of the store, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.” Bring up those feelings around this memory and begin tapping on the statement “the anxiety attack in the store…”

The scripts in this article are generalities. To get the best effect, tune into a specific event that caused you anxiety and then hold onto that intense emotional feeling that comes from that experience as you tap through the scripts.

If you find that this EFT exercise worked a little but you can’t get the intensity level to go down to a 1 or 0 and you’d like more help with this, contact me for more information on how we can work one-on-one together. EFT tapping has worked for millions of people around the world. It’s been researched and proven it works, and it’s a simple process to eliminate those roadblocks you encounter that can hold you back in life.

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