Transform Your Life

All the self-growth and improvement strategies you try won’t work until you change one thing: self-love. Until you make this shift, you won’t believe you are worthy of having an amazing life. Learn how you can foster incredible self-love and start creating a life you love!


Transform Your Relationship

Feeling disconnected from your partner? Bored? Lost the spark? Or, is there too much spark (like fighting or bickering)? There are healthy ways to communicate and research-proven ways to reconnect with your partner. Learn how to transform your relationship into an amazing, loving one.


Get Clear

The more clear you are on what you want to have in your life and relationship, the more likely you are to have it. 

Get Perspective

Most people don’t tell anyone what they want or what they are struggling with.  Because of this, they don’t get an outside perspective. 

Get Support

Very few people (if any) achieve anything great alone. Sport stars have teammates and coaches- who do you have building you up for success in your relationship?  Your well-intentioned, twice-divorced uncle? A book or internet article? Are you tired of wasting valuable time trying to piece together advice for something that is so incredibly valuable?

Here’s What My Happy Clients Are Saying

Don’t just take it from me–I’ll let my clients do the talking!

When I first started coaching with Nicole, I told her I wanted to stay in my marriage because of my religious beliefs. I was really unhappy. I was desperate for something that would change my relationship because I didn’t want to keep feeling this way. What I like is that even though my husband didn’t attend the sessions, it made a huge difference. He didn’t need to be there to make changes. I had so many insights about why I was so unhappy, including that I didn’t take responsibility for my part. I blamed him and felt resentful a lot- and I carried that around like a huge anchor. Now I know I have to use what I learned in coaching to talk with him – and not just stuff that’s going on for me, but to ask him what’s going on for him. I feel so much closer to my husband now. 


If you’re going through a divorce, I highly recommend Nicole as a coach especially since she knows what it’s like to have gone through one.  I was devastated when I first found out my marriage was ending.  She taught me a lot of things to do outside of our sessions so I could stay focused and be more grounded for my kids and my job.  I wouldn’t be near where I am today if I didn’t do this for myself.  I’m now in a healthy relationship with a fantastic guy, my kids are in a much better place (because I am), and I’ve got an exciting future ahead of me.  She gave me back hope–I didn’t think I would feel that again.  Thanks Nicole!  Definitely worth it! Jen

40-ish, Divorced, and Happy for the First Time in Years

I was going through kind of a mini mid-life crisis after my only daughter went off to college.  My marriage was so-so, my career was so-so, and my whole life seemed “so-so.”  Something was missing.  Since I’ve been doing coaching with Nicole, my life, if I had to rate it overall, went from a 3 to a 9 (on a scale from 1 to 10).  Every time we end our session, I feel so positive about my future–and that carries over into the whole week ahead. O. S.

Pick up the phone and call me at (631) 339-0588 or use the contact form below to get started today.

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